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Changes In Attitude

Take An Honest Look At Your Life There is so much to see every day. The barrage of information we face daily is enough to make our eyes turn in a two-week-notice. It seems like we thrive on this information overload. We see everything, hear everything, and have an opinion about most everything. But in … Read more

John Robert, Master Of The Universe

JohnRobert Master Of The Universe

Every now and then you look back at the past and are surprised. The memories of events, real and fake have been mixed up and intertwined. Every time we remember something, a slight detail changes. When this happens enough, we can no longer trust memory. It happens a lot in this world.

Today, I realized it was happening to me. I found a photo of a friend of mine. I realized that somewhere between the story the photo told, and my memory of the day, the truth had to exist.

After a long excursion, JohnRobert began a rather intense conversation with the sky about the failures of this road to deliver us from the outside to the comfort of air-conditioning.

After a long excursion thru the most deceitful trails ever to be formed in the hopes of diminishing the population of carpetbaggers and politicians. We were looking for a way back to civilization and had finally found a road. A road with no cars on it. JohnRobert began a rather intense conversation with the sky about the failures of the road to deliver us from an Alabama Summer Heat Wave to a place with air-conditioning and indoor plumbing.

I must admit, upon finding this photo and trying to remember the exact details of the day, I was shocked with the realization of how much the photo did not reveal of this defining moment in my life, in John Roberts life and we can’t forget the stray cat either.

It was obvious that time, had just made the photo dusty and dirty. A little cleaning and it would be right back to it’s true status and would again be a shining piece of history to inspire the generations.

I took my laptop straight to the kitchen and started it on a deep clean cycle in the dishwasher. . . .

This was not as helpful as I expected it to be.

Many, many, many hours later, 5 bags of rice, a new credit card at a Apple Store, and a small bribe involving the marriage of an Apple tech and a Starbucks barista (one of those two will be really excited to learn that i am licensed to perform marriages and that piece of paper I signed means they get a tax break now, and a lot of that dudes debt) I had the photo back and restored to it’s original glory.

Now, years later, the photo of the event finally matches my memory of the day.

JohnRobert Master Of The Universe
Fabulous secret powers were revealed to John-Robert the day He held aloft The magic sword and said…

poor kitty.

What is the craziest memory of yours that has changed over the years? Tell us a story, and make it a great one!

The most crucial part of someone’s legacy may require a second look and an open mind.

Matt 26:10-13 msg

Why are you giving this woman a hard time? She has just done something wonderfully significant for me…
People are fascinating to me. The amount of experience we have in life doesn’t always positively affect how we see the world. We watch the actions of people or the actions taken against them thru the lens of our experiences, or the “group think” lens that is crafted by fear, pride, or speculation.
What would change in our lives if we looked at people thru the lens that sees the love of Christ for others?
What would change if, when looking at others, we assumed “the best” motive in a situation instead of insisting on “the worst” until it is proven not to be?

Matt 26:10-13 msg
“Why are you giving this woman a hard time?”

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National Bird Day

National Bird Day

Every year on January 5th something extraordinary happens. In the United States of America, the millions (and millions) of birds take flight in the largest aviary on the planet Earth. Sort of the largest aviary on the planet Earth. Ok, full disclosure. The aviary isn’t the largest on planet Earth; it is the planet which … Read more

Guardians of the Galaxy Fight Party

The Guardians of the Galaxy

It’s not easy to fit an entire team of personalities on screen at one time. To fit them all on the screen at one time and still have their individual personalities shine. That is cinematic mastery. The Guardians of the Galaxy Party (in this photo from Infinity War) shows us perfectly how to fit every one in, and still have enough room for an Asgardian God-man.

This is photo is taken from a scene in Infinity War. The Guardians have just found a very not awake guy floating around in space. They bring him into the ship and start trying to figure out why he was floating in space and why he is not totally dead after floating around in space. Obviously they have not seen Star Wars. People can totally float in space and survive. 

There little space fishing adventure has netted them a fully alive Norse God. Thor jumps off the table and stands slightly unaware of where he is and who they are. They freak out and we get this amazing shot.

Each of the team members, we have grown to know and love, are gathering around this table in their ship, The Benatar.

Before we move forward we do need to spend a moment in the amazingness of their ship being named after Pat Benatar. Yes. You are correct it is the Pat “Hit me With Your Best Shot” Benatar. Which I feel is a direct middle-finger, if you will, to who ever they are fighting at any given moment. One that 95% of the people on the screen will not understand the reference to. Star-Lord will get the reference. As a public speaker that frequently played a game called “Let’s sneak quotes from Firefly the TV Series into my speeches on religion and life skills so I can be entertained and just see if anyone realizes it”, I totally get doing things that only I understand and feeling fantastic about it. I know return you to the actual point of this article. 

This moment in film history. They don’t know if he is a friend or foe. They are prepared for foe, each in a way that tells you who they are with out ever saying a word. 

Those who use tech to compliment their wit and stature, have guns drawn. I also assume at this moment Rocket the Trash Rabbit has a nuclear toenail cutter in his pocket and is just waiting for an excuse to tell everyone about it. Groot is Treeing up. Is treeing up the equivalent of hulking up? Eh, it is now. Our beloved stabby-stabby-slicey-slicey duo are ready to overpower there guest in close hand-to-hand combat. 

The bit that amazes me the most though, is Mantis. Her understanding of the universe is deceptively simple. She isn’t the character that uses technology or weaponry to do her part in the team. She doesn’t plot or scheme or plan. Her role is different. She sees peoples deepest desires and can move their emotions. She can also take a stressed out mind and bring it rest and sleep.

I don’t think her “powers” are really where her value is though. Her sheer presence affects the team in a very positive way.

Her “powers” boil down to empathy. The things she can do are amazing, and very useful to the Guardians team. I don’t think her “powers” are really where her value is though. Her sheer presence affects the team in a very positive way. She has an ability to bring peoples thoughts to light. They know she can do this. Just knowing someone around them can do this, the others begin to lower their defensive walls faster than they would normally. Their trust grows. It’s not because they are being manipulated. Their trust starts to grow exponentially after Mantis plays Drax’s favorite game “telling peoples deep dark secrets”. The mask they put up around each other are gone.

The real hearts and stories, the real “them” is revealed to each other. Why would they put the walls back up. They are becoming family. They are becoming able to be completely real and to trust each other. That is not a thing that has worked out for any of them in the past. 

Would they have gotten to this place without Mantis and her empathic ability. Yes. I have no doubt. I also know that having someone around, someone who knows the value of community, who ask the questions that are difficult to answer, who ignores the pleasantries of society can speed up the process. Sometimes those pleasantries, the ones that keep our walls safely up and keeps us emotionally distant from others, are not nearly as pleasant as they want us to believe. 

When I saw this scene, it amazed me so much. It was a great movie. There was a really amazing “easter egg” like deep in the “rabbit hole” moment for me. I sat there watching everyone get armed up with the weapons that they bring to the team. When i looked at Mantis, I realized that she was doing the same thing. Most people just didn’t realize they were seeing her contribution to the teams power in this moment.

Her real contribution is the family. The family that started as hurt, flawed individuals. People looking for a way to make up for the mistakes they made. People looking for anyone to belong too. People looking to not be a failed experiment alone in the universe. People that need a purpose and to feel they have value. 

It could just be the reason the Guardians movies, and Marvel movies in general, are so successful is because, beyond just the lasers and super powers, they give us deep and real stories of characters that are way more than just their power. They show us people who struggle with the exact same kind of problems we do. People we can see ourselves in. Who’s motives and stories are similar to our own.